Friday, August 16, 2013

Wafaa, Chickpeas and Naptime

31-year-old Wafaa Khattab has three sons who speak German and Arabic. They attend a Jewish Montessori school and go to a community mosque. She greeted us at a neighborhood museum in a colorful maxi dress and big gold hoop earrings. Wafaa lives in Kreuzberg, this Berlin neighborhood dotted with those gold cobblestones telling us Jews used to live there. Now, the streets are filled with doner kebap stands, and the two main spots are a plaza with a refugee tent city and a three-block GDR Russian-minimalist apartment building. The area is home to hipster coffee spots, the Green Party headquarters and trendy shops, waiting for you to say, ‘Maybe, I’m actually in Williamsburg.”

At the Kreuzberg Museum, we took part in a virtual walking tour to prime us for our real tour. Before entering the virtual tour chamber, we had to put shower caps over our shoes. The exhibit, a map on the floor, allowed us to see and hear the area. We got iPods and could click on numbers while standing on the correct ‘street corner’ and listening to audio testimonials about food, struggle, religion, conflict and community at those locations over the last 100 years. I heard about a little girl playing in a park last summer, a punky woman at a gay and lesbian cafĂ© in the ‘60s, and a man immigrated from Turkey on a one-year factory worker’s visa in the ‘80s. We left the building and took to the streets soon after. On Wafaa’s live walking tour, we spotted two famous German movie stars, but we had no idea because we don’t really go here. In a Turkish candyshop called Smyrna, Wafaa treated us to a nut mix, and then I spent a euro on a bag of chocolate balls. They turned out to be chickpeas, covered in chocolate. I would not recommend this unless you enjoy confusing your tastebuds.

The tour’s last stop was a 10 million euro mosque, a modern construction cattycorner to a store called ‘Crazy Korean Fried Chicken: So so crazy.’ A few of us went in the mosque and I was transported back to Istanbul, the incredible sense of peace and immensely beautiful design details. The stained glass reflected in a central chandelier, and a single man sat and checked his phone on the edge of the room. One of the many difficult issues facing Kreuzberg’s diverse community and the Muslim community in Germany is the lack of government acceptance. Protestant, Catholic and Jewish are all claimable religious communities you can affiliate with on your tax forms, channeling funds toward clergy, programming and general support. Islam is not a recognized tax-gaining community through the current system, and I don’t really understand why. It doesn’t seem quite fair that other German citizens can help support their religious communities but Muslim Germans can’t… I’d have to learn more to really dig into the issue. Fun unrelated fact: once, Angelina Jolie-Pitt and Brad Pitt were spotted in Kreuzberg, too.

We returned to the museum for a Turkish buffet lunch of stuffed grape leaves, sundried tomato skewers and vegetable kebabs, and tons of mysterious spreads of all colors. Lucky for me, everything was vegetarian so I could go to town across the table. I think I overloaded and in a stuffed stupor, I could barely keep my eyes open in our next discussion, with two leading activists against modern anti-semitism and right-wing extremism. As interesting as the topics were, I decided a quick break in the hallway was needed. After a snooze in the stairwell, I returned refreshed and was able to engage in the group talk, asking a question about gender and women’s involvement in modern extremist groups.

I was so glad to return home soon after and promptly passed out into a three-hour nap. I hadn’t intended to sleep so long, but I must have needed the rest. When I woke up at 6:10, shabbat in Berlin was less than an hour away…

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